Thursday, 24 March 2016

Get Confident

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Right no messing about. It's time for you reading to get confident about yourself. Start the journey of discovering yourself then show it off to the world. It's not so long ago that I myself came across very timid, I say came across because i'm the total oppersite, I have to humbe the crazy me before I become the circus it's self.

My top tip's will definitely allow you to be you all the time no matter the company. I mean at the end of the day if you don't know a stranger why care about the opinion they attach to you. But it's also very critical to not pass the line and get cocky now. F**k it! If you're feelin yourself let the world know you do too, although people will look at you like "why does she think she's so great" just give them the look of "yesssss, bish I'm the perfect version of me".

1) Work work work work work work! Work you and your skills, every individual has something that they personally are really great at!

2) Be comfortable.. Obviously body image is a big thing these days. The problem is that even looking perfect is a problem, because we all ways find something that we want to change about ourselves.

3) Get rid of negative friends. Enough said!

4) Murder negative thoughts and make way for positive one's. If you're really struggling with this, start seeing things from a different perspective.

5) Get more involved in things that you are interested in. Let people notice you, it'll be daunting at first because it's probably something that you often shy away from but do it a few times and you'll kind of get use to it.

6) It's always great to hear a bit of gossip about someone, and even better when it's someone you don't like- not that you cared to listen. Do remember though stay out of the drama, you want to avoid feeling like shit.

7) Dress to impress yourself! Look good feel great.

It Don't Fit

Twitter: @Shirelle_SVLH

Shopping for me has been a very daunting task. In fact I start to feel like shit, depressed and annoyed whenever I go clothes shopping. This feeling is relatable to how I feel about most situations right now. My blog for instance, I can never make my mind up and shape the page and posts to the way I want, I always have to start a fresh. Annoying to say the least but I'm obviously a perfectionist- contradicting one of course!

Back to the point I want to make though! I went shopping a few days ago.. now tell me why I'm getting bigger? Eating more is the obvious answer but I can't say I have. I am lacking in the exercise department but I've been told multiple times before that it's 70% diet and 30% exercise. Bullsh*t clearly. I've cut down and still nothing great is happening.

I find it best when I loose weight but don't really realise.. hmm I sure most people like it when it's like this.

I have a major problem area; my boobs. I could take my boob fat and tissue out and help 3 girls that are unhappy about being flat chested. Honestly I should seek help and advice from my GP but I don't want to go under the knife. Plus when I think about it, loosing weight would help in that area. Weight and healthy eating are things I speak about daily. If not speaking about this topic to someone its definitely on my mind. I always say that I'm going to address this problem but my body never cooperates. When ever I find a nice blouse my boobs are often the reason why I have to consider getting a size up.

I say I feel trapped but clearly I don't want to change any bad habits that I'm not trying to focus on.

I swear every single person in the world has a body image problem. I'm a hypocrite for saying that I'm all for supporting everyone's body image when I'm seeking for a dream body. I'm not preaching about how much I hate my body though, I just need to loose weight which my health will benefit from surely. I'm always complaining about being tired so maybe a smaller me will be more energetic-I won't know till I'm there.

Do you have any area's that you're insecure about?